Contributory Behavior Management (CBM)™ Framework

A practical model for transforming toxic patterns into healthy, high-contribution behaviors.

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What Is the CBM™ Framework?

The Contributory Behavior Management (CBM) Framework is a groundbreaking behavioral model that identifies, measures, and shifts the habits that shape how individuals show up in relationships, teams, and organizations. Simply put, CBM answers a critical question: “Is this behavior contributing or taking away from the wellbeing and success of this environment?” CBM makes behavior visible, measurable, and coachable — enabling people to move from: - defensiveness → openness - avoidance → accountability - blame → responsibility - impulsivity → intentionality - conflict → civility - isolation → collaboration Whether used with individuals, families, teams, or entire organizations, CBM provides a roadmap for building a civil, respectful, performance-driven culture.

Why Behavior Matters More Than Ever

In today's environments, success depends not only on skills and talent, but on how people behave. Toxic behaviors — even subtle ones — quietly erode trust, performance, innovation, psychological safety, engagement, and team functioning. Meanwhile, contributory behaviors build civility, healthy communication, collaboration, stable relationships, shared responsibility, and higher productivity. CBM helps people and systems move toward the behaviors that create thriving environments.

CBM Behavior Spectrum: From Toxic → Neutral → Contributory

At the core of the model is a spectrum with three behavior categories:

1. Toxic Behaviors

These are harmful, draining, or destructive actions that damage relationships and culture. CBM helps individuals recognize toxic patterns without shame — and replace them with healthier alternatives.

blaminggossipunderminingpassive aggressiondefensivenesschronic negativitybullyingemotional volatility

2. Neutral Behaviors

Actions that are not harmful, but not helpful. They contribute nothing — and in times of stress, may slip into toxicity. CBM trains people to shift from neutral → contributory through awareness and skill-building.

silencedisengagementinconsistencyavoidanceemotional shutdownminimal participation

3. Contributory Behaviors

These strengthen relationships, reduce escalation, and support productivity and civility. CBM is ultimately about increasing the frequency of contributory behaviors — individually and collectively.

taking ownershipactive listeningclarity in communicationoffering supportregulating tone and presenceasking questionsinitiating solutionsaligning actions to shared goals

How CBM Works

CBM operates in five Steps:

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STEP 1 — Assess the Current Behavior Pattern

Using the CBM Assessment, we identify toxic, neutral, and contributory behaviors.

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STEP 2 — Map High-Risk Situations

We determine when people are likely to slip into toxic or neutral patterns (e.g., conflict, stress, uncertainty, authority dynamics).

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STEP 3 — Create a Behavior Shift Plan

Customized strategies help individuals move toward contributory actions.

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STEP 4 — Practice and Reinforce

Through coaching, repetition, and environmental cues.

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STEP 5 — Measure Progress

Re-assessment helps track development and guide next steps.

Who CBM Helps

Individuals

  • break toxic habits
  • develop self-awareness
  • replace impulsive reactions
  • improve relationships
  • build emotional balance

Families

  • reduce conflict
  • improve communication
  • establish civility
  • develop healthier patterns

Leaders

  • improve authority style
  • manage teams with clarity
  • reduce reactivity
  • foster psychological safety

Teams

  • build trust
  • reduce toxicity
  • increase collaboration

Organizations

  • create a civility-based culture
  • reduce HR escalations
  • improve engagement and performance

Why CBM is Unique

  • Behavior is placed on a contribution spectrum
  • It integrates relational and systemic impact
  • It aligns directly with performance and culture outcomes
  • It uses practical, teachable behavior shifts
  • It works for individuals, families, and organizations

CBM is simple to understand but transformative in application.

Real Use Cases for CBM

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Workplace Conflict Resolution

CBM shows each person how their behavior impacts escalation — and how to shift toward collaboration.

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Leadership Coaching

Leaders learn how to regulate themselves, communicate clearly, and build civility-based accountability.

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Family Dynamics

Parents and children uncover unhealthy cycles and build healthier patterns.

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Performance Improvement

Employees understand what behavioral expectations actually look like.

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Culture Transformation

Organizations use CBM to embed civility norms and reshape behavior at scale.

CBM turns emotional chaos into emotional clarity.

How CBM Integrates with the Ecosystem

CBM is one of the core pillars of your ecosystem. It connects with:

WICM™

Shows how wisdom competencies support contributory behavior.

Grip Modulation™

Explains how grip styles shape toxic or contributory actions.

Presence–Engagement Tools™

Links presence and emotional energy to behavior patterns.

RaaS™

Connects contribution to relational subsidies and drains.

HORDE™

Aligns behavioral contribution with relational capacity in roles.

Dashboards & Praxy Avatar Profile Signature (PAPS)™

Provides behavior data for personalized development.

CBM is the behavioral engine of the ecosystem.

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